Why ‘staying a little longer’ could cost you more than money.

Ever told yourself, “I’ll just stay one more year at work, then I’ll enjoy life”?

Spoiler: that “one more year” rarely stays one. Before you know it, your calendar’s full, your knees ache, and your grandkids are asking why you’ve been missing all the fun.

I imagined retirement would be bliss: lazy mornings with tea on the terrace (though I don’t have one but that’s not the point), hikes in the hills that felt like adventures, lunches with ladies instead of tiresome meetings. Freedom, finally!

Then reality whispered: “Just one more year.” And another. Work piled up. The computer at work become a hard taskmaster …. That dream of freedom slowly felt soooo far away.

I thought, “Well, if I stay a little longer, I’ll be ready then, and I’ll save more…” while my health and energy become weary and my family memories were quietly gathering dust.

Here’s the truth: time doesn’t wait for your career comfort zone. Every “just one more year” quietly steals your healthiest years. Choosing obligations over yourself doesn’t make you a hero. It’s a trade-off you can’t reverse. Freedom and living your best life don’t start tomorrow. They start the moment you decide they will start. So I bit the bullet and at 55 I went for it. And once I had made the decision I knew that it was the right one. I wanted to grasp life by the whatsits whilst I still could.

A few bite-sized lessons I learned to save yourself from the loop:

• Don’t fall for the “one more year” trap, make the decision now.
  
  
• Health is wealth, literally. Don’t trade your vitality for your obligations.
  
  
• Prioritise your connections with family, friend and yourself.
  
  
• Taking Small steps today = big freedom tomorrow.

Freedom isn’t a date on the calendar, it’s a mindset. Those “one more year” moments? They’re a lie dressed as ‘sensible’. Reclaim your time before it quietly slips through your fingers. You deserve life, not just the next task on the list.

Have you fallen into the “one more year” trap? Share your story below, or come chat in the Facebook group. Let’s swap tips, laughs, and maybe a little rebellious inspiration.

You’re between chapters – and this moment matters more than you think.
Brenda x

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